Gender Discrimination
Gender
discrimination has been a stubborn issue across societies in most
regions. Male & female are unnecessarily fighting for opportunities amongst
themselves. Why I say it is unnecessary is because this is a man-made system. But
here we are going to address this matter from a junior’s angle. I am sure as we
will move ahead in this journey of exploring & understanding gender
discrimination, we also will have some answers to fix the anomaly.
Why Do people discriminate basis gender?
Now
I believe you all must be curious to know how do you all face gender
discrimination at a young age. As gender discrimination is believed to be a
grown-up problem in an urban scenario. So, let us see some examples. Have you ever
faced difficulty in getting in the school basketball team being a girl? I am not saying that you cannot play in
girls’ team but why is that the case. Why can’t a strong and competent girl
play in a boys’ team? Or else I believe a boy is interested in learning
ballet but somehow his father doesn’t approve of it. Such discriminations keep
happening all the time around us.
A major reason for them is these people are conditioned to think like that. We
all are infused with beliefs, notions, likes or dislikes from our parents or
people around us. So, growing up we all develop these inhibitions & we
decide for other people basis these faulty beliefs.
How
do we avoid being discriminating?
First
thing is to stop putting things under the male or female bracket. Always support
people to grab an equal opportunity in their surroundings. Help a friend attempt a
task which conventionally doesn’t match with their gender. Do not pass on
comments or ill remarks if he\she doesn’t particularly define a gender-specific
trait. Like, do not say that a particular boy in your class cries like a girl.
Or maybe a girl in your neighbourhood walks like a guy.
What
will we gain if the discrimination ends?
As
a society if we practice not being gender-biased, things will miraculously
change around us. We will have less burden on ourselves for doing somethings
& achieving somethings. Girls will have no pressure of being excellent in
cooking & guys will have the opportunity to explore their passion rather than
earning money.
All
these things may not sound very appealing at first. Just because we all are
accustomed to live in a place where discrimination basis gender is pretty
normal. But I sincerely hope that we stop being partial towards any particular
gender & fairly treat all. Heard about some couple somewhere which decided
to raise their kids free from gender classification. Well, I felt good
to know that slowly but the mindset is changing & it will surely
bring much more balanced harmony in our
lives.