Friends…..Har Ek Friend Zaroori Hota Hai
While growing
up, most parents read stories on friendship with their kids. This builds the
foundation of an emotional relationship in the minds of children.
When did you
make your first friend? Was it in the pre-primary, primary, or when you were in
junior school? Remembering the first childhood friend is one of the fondest
memories and you never forget that joyful experience.
Friendship is
one important relationship and you tend to build a lot of things inside you
such as self-esteem, social competence, self-confidence, etc. With a friend at
hand, you can share problems with them, ask for advice and solution, look for
moral support, talk about pain and happiness, live proud moments together, etc.
Friends can help in reducing stress and make you survive even the most
challenging times during your teenage.
How To Make Friends Wisely?
Friendship
happens when you feel attracted to some quality of the other person. Again
there can be many scenarios where you can make a friend:
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Finding someone with the same interest as yours
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Someone who shows interest in your hobbies or work
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Someone whom you meet every day and spend enough time
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Someone who lives nearby
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Someone who plays with you or help you study
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Someone who loves to listen to you or opens up in front
of you
But it is
important that you should know who to be friends with? Some teenagers are good
and might love to help you out but there might be instances when people can try
to take advantage of you and befriend you because you have some good resources,
or better lifestyle, or are jealous of something.
So while
choosing a friend always look for a give and take relationship where you both
watch out each other’s back. Find someone who is caring with good manners and
behavior. Your friend should always talk positive and boost your morale rather
than talking negative and telling you can’t do something or achieve anything.
Are You A Good Friend?
If you want to
be a good friend, even you need to fulfil certain responsibilities. A good
friendship is not about playing together or going out and eating your favorite
food. The excitement of meeting at school every day and studying for an exam is
just a part of it. As a friend, you must always stand up for each other. You
should do the following to make your friendship strong:
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Talk to your friend about any emotional distress
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Help them go through difficult times
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Be there and provide mental support
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Make them laugh and cry with them
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Feel happy for their achievements.
Conclusion